In order to make things easier to take in, I will write this in the first person perspective.
I, Noelle, am married. My spouse is the Past. This is true because I am tethered to it. I cannot repeat and I cannot go back and change it now. We do not believe in the practice of divorce in this situation because as much as this might seem like a burden, I am the better for having experienced my Past. I love where the Past has brought me so I do not begrudge my connection to it. Even so I cannot dwell in it. It doesn’t, in a way, fulfill my needs. Because of this, I cheat on the Past with the Present. Present is ever changing. One minute care-free and joyful, the next angry, sad, and frustrating. It’s a maddening and intoxicating relationship and I have learned to manage it well and glean the most out of it as I can. I wouldn’t change the Present for the world. From this extramarital affair, the Present has impregnated me with the Future. The Future, once born, will have to be guarded and prepared for maturity. For with growth comes my own full potential through the Future.
You see the analogy? It’s not perfect by any stretch, but it is one way in which people can be placed in relation to measurable time as we know it. Enjoy.